Or, should I say, the abrupt end?
That one-time ‘hello’ on the social media handle turned out to become hours of phone conversations, anticipated texts, smiling, laughing, giggling and gisting about everything.
Gradually, it evolved into wanting to spend more time in each other’s company and we so looked forward to each meeting.
It doesn’t seem weird as to how close we became in a matter of weeks because it felt as though we were both in love.
I was used to living in my own world and didn’t understand that anything can happen when you take the chance, but with you, I was willing to take the chance and it felt like the start of something new.
Our conversations thereafter confirmed it, our growing love.
We were going to figure it out, together you said. I didn’t mind because I liked the view and I thought you felt it too, but, somehow along the way, even before we could formally define what we shared, we got disconnected.
Smiles… It’s funny though, how it all ended so abruptly and the one whose message you are so eager to return has zero message for you.
I guess, goodbyes hurt, but then, we can’t just gather all the people we really like/love together and just stay together forever. Someone would leave. Someone always leave, then we would have to say goodbye.
I guess it hurts more because we never really talked about it, but the beautiful part of it is that I do not hold it against you neither am I looking for what or who to pin it on.
Life happens, and someone once said, “if you want something badly, set it free, it it comes back to you, then it’s yours forever, if it doesn’t… well…it was never yours to begin with”.
Lol, I really do not care about the quotes but I would like you to know that, I’m grateful for the friendship, the smile and for the love you showed me even though it was just for a while.
I have no regrets, no pains, no more heartbreak, instead, I’m glad we met and I’m proud of the man you’re growing to become, you’ve just got to make sure not to disappoint me because I see greatness in you.
It’s goodbye, not the end of love.
The fact that ‘we’ didn’t work out doesn’t mean ‘you’ and ‘I’ do not exist.
I’m still rooting for your success buddy. Always will.
Ciao ciao ❤️👋
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